We called her “Miss Caroline Street” not only because she lived and worked there most of her life, but also because it was her favorite place on the planet. Even in her later years, she walked downtown sometimes a couple times a day. From ages 10-12 she was selling raffle tickets and Christmas cards on Caroline St. for Mrs. Marston whose husband owned the Brent’s store; during the summer of 1938 she worked at Montgomery Ward’s, and later at Joe Ulman’s apparel shop. After graduating from James Monroe, she worked at the telephone company and then as a bookkeeper for American Viscose. Back on Caroline Street in her 30’s, she worked at the Western Auto, and E. C. Ninde’s Furniture (20 years). During the 1980’s Corinth worked at Leggett (now Belk), and beginning in 1990 she worked at Crown Jewelers full and part time for about 12 years. Upon retirement she was given an honorary award by the Downtown Merchants’ Association, and in 2001 she was chosen to participate in HFFI’s oral history project. Fredericksburg has always been her home, and she dearly loved the town, its people, and particularly Caroline Street where she grew up.
As fate would have it, on August 12, 2012, Corinth Belle Coleman Butler, age 89, ended her earthly journey at Hughes Home on Caroline Street. Called Cony Belle, Connie, Grandma, and various incorrect pronunciations of her given name, Corinth was born December 18, 1922 at Bloody Angle in Spotsylvania, Virginia to Irene Hall Parker and Paul D. Coleman. She was the “baby” of their eight children, all of whom she survived. Preceding her in death in addition to Mayflower passenger John Howland, and daughter Desire from whom she was descended, were her siblings Susie C. Wright, Paul Coleman, Sallie C. Fleming, Roberta C. Mealey, Louisa C. Farley, Edgar Coleman, Bernard Coleman and former husband Jack C. Butler. Family survivors are many and include but are not limited to her daughters Dr. Nancie Butler Lightner and husband Dr. Jeffrey K. Lightner, whom she called her adopted son and Patsie Salvador; grandchildren Michael Shayne Adams Lightner , Clay Parker Adams Lightner, Richard Weaver Barnes Lightner, Ryan Cessna Snowden Lightner, Kristopher Salvador, Aaron Salvador and Corinth Elizabeth Coleman Lightner; great-grandchildren Alexis Jordan Lightner, Madison Ariah Lightner, Natalie Grace Lightner, Tatum Belle Gile Lightner, Indy Tyner Snowden Lightner, and Ashley Elizabeth Salvador; and great-great grandchild Genevieve Iris Nelson; nieces and nephews Kathryn Fleming Durity, Carolyn Inscoe Davis, Rupert Farley, Bill Farley, Bob Coleman, Barbara White, Elaine Tickner, Berney Coleman, Gary Butler, Brad Butler, Shelley Butler, Greg Butler, Judy Dillon, Susan Morrall, Roberta Swanhart, and many others.
Besides her family, Corinth loved her house and her yard. Gardening was her passion, and she said it was the best therapy. She had an amazing “green thumb”, and took great joy in rooting and growing plants and flowers. Her irises and lilies were her pride and joy. She fed the birds and cussed the squirrels.
Like many of her generation she did not waste anything, but in many ways she was ahead of her time. She was a divorced, independent, working Mom before it was fashionable, and she was earth-friendly, calling herself a “recycling maniac”. Her energy and sense of humor were contagious.
She loved to travel with her daughter Nancie and husband Jeff and they enjoyed many, many road trips to Colorado, Pennsylvania, and Virginia Beach where until age 87, she rode her bike on the boardwalk with great-grandgirls Lexi and Madi. It seems like everywhere she went, she knew people. Once while vacationing on the Costa Del Sol, she ran into a couple to whom she had sold furniture!
A music lover, Corinth loved to dance and she loved people. Back in the day, she partied with the best of them…Sanford, Billy, Peyton, Martha, Charlie and many more. She was a strong, self-made woman, who refused to be limited by conventions, and who often rocked our world with feisty comments and colorful perceptions. As Peggy Sale once said to her, “This is why we love you!”
Corinth was thankful for the life she had created for herself and for the many blessings of family and friends. Even during her last weeks she was very appreciative of her family and the care she received at Hughes Home. She took great delight in making the nurses and attendants laugh, and she loved them all…Ashley, Tina, Tuyet, Tameisha, Mary, Brandy, Robin, and many more will remain in her heart forever.
The family will receive friends from 5 to 7 pm Thursday, August 16 at Covenant Funeral Service, Fredericksburg.
A funeral service will be held at 2 pm Friday, Aug. 17, 2012 at the funeral home chapel. Interment will follow in Oak Hill Cemetery.
The family has requested that in lieu of flowers, contributions be made to the Fredericksburg Center for Creative Arts, 813 Sophia Street, Fredericksburg, VA 22401.
My thoughts and prayers are with the family. She was a neat lady, and I have many fond memories of her.
She was an incredible woman. I miss her and love her so much.
Dear Nancie and family, Thoughts and prayers for all of you during this time of sorrow. Your mom was such a classy lady with such a great sense of humor. I know she will be missed by all of you. Hold tight to the precious memories you share as a family during this time. Hugs to you Betty Lou
Nancie and family, sorry for your loss. I will miss Aunt Corinth at our next family reunion. You were right in stating she was ahead of her time and traveled to a different drummer. She leaves a great legacy in her family.
Nancie, Patsie and families….Wow…!!!..An era has passed..!!!…I’ll always remember the pajama parties in the basement at the little house, sneaking cigarettes, the Fiat…!!!…Corinth was one of us girls then, and always will be….So sorry for your loss, but will NEVER forget her and the fun she had with us….or, was it the fun we had with her…???….She was truly one of a kind…!!!!
Corinth was a joy to listen to…all of her stories of Her Fredericksburg. We so loved knowing her. She was one of a kind and a “hell” of a gal. We miss you Corinth. Our prayers go out to her loving family.
Ms. Butler was an amazing woman from the time that I knw her! She always had us laughing at Hughes Home! She was a joy to have! We will all miss her & we all love her. If we ever needed a laugh while at work all we had to do was go in and tal to Ms. Butler! I am so sorry about the loss in y’alls family! May god be with you during this time.
I read Corinth’s obituary in the newspaper this morning, and I want to express my condolences to you and your family. It was beautifully written, describing a woman I so wish I had the honor to know. She was colorful, unique and well loved, clearly stated in the paper. Whoever wrote it should write a book about her — I want to be the first one to read the book. What a fascinating lady! Blessings and prayers for Corinth’s family.
My sincere condolences to the family. Corinith was a friend for so many years and she will be missed by the Fredericksburg community.
Sincere condolences to Connie’s family. What a beautiful tribute in the newspaper to a super lady. Connie was a wonderful friend and a good timer. We had many treasured times during our tenure at Leggett back in the 80′s. She will certainly be missed in our community. God Bless!
This wonderful lady will be missed by so many people including myself. My sympathy goes out to all and may God bless and comfort them
This wonderful lady will be missed by so many people including myself. My sympathy goes out to all and may God bless and comfort them
My sincere sympathy goes out to those who loved this wonderful lady who was a friend to all. May God bless them
Am so very sorry for your loss. Corinth was always a joy to be with, and remained a friend from very early days. She was one of a kind! God bless your family at this sad time.
Thank you so much for giving all of us at Hughes Home the pleasure of meeting ang loving your mom. She was one of a kind and touched us in a big way in ashort time. We send our condolences to you and your entire family.
Corinth was a joy to know. Feisty, fiercely independent, young at heart, Corinth had energy to spare. Her stories, and the poetic license she took in telling them, commanded attention. When she started talking, you knew you were in for a treat, a laugh, a tear, sometimes an argument, but always a memorable good time. Rest in peace, dear lady. You will be missed because you inspired us to be our youthful selves — ageless, unguarded, living life. Thank you.